The Hidden Problem of Educator Abuse


How sexual misconduct in schools is condoned and ignored

old lockers, some empty with the doors falling off
Photo by John Doyle

“The buck stopped with no one,” said lawyer Bob Weaver to the Portland Public School Board during an investigation of sexual abuse by school faculty. In 2017, the school board had ordered an investigation into the treatment of Mitch Whitehurst, a teacher who had demonstrated a pattern of misconduct with students.

In his first year as a teacher, Whitehurst’s conduct with students was so noticeably inappropriate that a vice-principal reported it to school police. The next year, there was another complaint about Whitehurst from a student’s mother. Years later, in the late 90s, school police were again notified about Whitehurst. The school district heard all of these complaints and did nothing.

In 2001, Whitehurst told high school student Rose Soto that he wanted to unzip her pants and take her to a motel. “I must not have mattered enough. I sure as hell didn’t feel protected by anybody,” Soto told The Oregonian.

While the story of how Whitehurst’s persistent sexual harassment and abuse of students was apathetically ignored by the education system is certainly a repulsive one, it is also, unfortunately, not a very unique one. In Education Week’s sixth-month examination of the issue, they discovered “244 cases, involving everything from unwanted touching to years-long sexual relationships and serial rape.”

“One reason such cases can prove so divisive is that they often involve teachers who are among the most popular and dedicated in the school.”

These cases included a coach who videotaped volleyball players in the changing room, an English teacher who fathered a child with a 16-year old student, and a 6th-grade teacher who had sex with four eleven-year-old boys. While more than 70% of the suspects were teachers- janitors, librarians, principals, and bus drivers were also on the list. “One reason such cases can prove so divisive is that they often involve teachers who are among the most popular and dedicated in the school,” writes Caroline Hendrie for Education Week.

In another year-long investigation by USA Today, it was found that education officials often cover up evidence of abuse by faculty. They found that “state education agencies across the country have ignored a federal ban on signing secrecy deals with teachers suspected of abusing minors, a practice informally known as ‘passing the trash,’” and that administrators are rarely punished for failing to report misconduct to state licensing officials.

In New Jersey, Montville Township Public Schools wanted to get rid of a first-grade teacher who was accused of asking students to sit on his lap. They did not, however, report the accusations to police. The teacher was hired by a nearby private school less than two months after resigning.

A teacher lost his license in Ohio after being accused of touching students in a “sexually suggestive manner,” and the district made efforts to keep the records of these accusations a secret. “In some cases, school districts agree to eliminate personnel records, making it all but impossible to tell what the teacher was accused of doing,” writes Steve Reilley for USA Today.


It’s in our nature to want to believe that the world is a safe place and that such terrible things could not go on in such vast numbers right under our noses– but it’s time for us to accept the reality of this situation.

We have to be careful that we aren’t committing the just-world fallacy, making the assumption that the world is a just place where people get what they deserve. Often, they do not.

According to Charol Shakeshaft, who studies educator abuse:

“In elementary schools, the abuser is often one of the people that students most like and that parents most trust. In my studies, the abusers of children younger than seventh grade have different patterns than those who abuse older children.

The educators who target elementary school children are often high achievers in the profession and, compared to their non-abusing counterparts, hold a disproportionate number of awards and teaching recognitions. They are more often recognized in the community, the state, and sometimes the nation as distinguished and dedicated educators.

While the issue of sexual assaults on college campuses has been discussed at length in the public sphere in the wake of the #metoo era, the similar problems in K-12 schools are often left out of the conversation. According to federal data, students reported about 9,700 incidents of rape and assault at elementary and secondary schools during the 2015–2016 school year.

“The physical sexual abuse of students in schools is likely more than 100 times the abuse by priests.”

NBC News reported on how new Title IX regulations might help, but the problem appears to be getting worse, not better. When we think of children in potentially predatory situations, we may think of the Boy Scouts, or of the Catholic Church, but we ignore the more common danger to which a larger number of kids are exposed. Charol Shakeshaft is quoted as saying: “the physical sexual abuse of students in schools is likely more than 100 times the abuse by priests.”

“What typically happens is you’ll have a teacher who’s spending a little too much time in a room with one child with the door shut,” says Sherryll Kraizer, executive director of the Denver-based Safe Child Program. This problem is so widespread because of the sheer amount of access that teachers and school faculty have to students.

Diane Cranley, the founder of TAALK, thinks that it is important that faculty are trained in how to recognize grooming behaviors. It’s important to recognize that the friendly grooming behavior of a teacher might not be much different from the behavior of a priest or a troop leader. “Even in churches, you might only have access to children once a week on Sundays … whereas with schools, it’s five days of the week, nine months of the year,” Cranley told The Voice of San Diego.

A US Department of Education report found that about one in ten students will experience sexual misconduct from a school employee before they graduate high school. A 2010 GAO report found that one offender can have as many as 73 victims. Low-income female high school students are the highest-risk demographic.

When a problem is this persistent, and there’s such an incredible commitment by so many to keep it hidden from the public, it’s troubling to think about how many victims probably exist who have not yet come forward.

Please talk to your children, fellow parents, friends, and schools about educator abuse.


Additional Resources:

Guidelines for Dealing With Educator Sexual Misconduct

7 Ways Teachers Can Help Prevent Child Sexual Abuse


Originally published on medium.com on August 29th, 2020. 

Why Knowledge is Power


Seven Reasons You Don’t Want to Forget

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Photo by Raj Eiamworakul

“Scientia potentia est,” or, “knowledge is power” is a Latin aphorism most commonly attributed to 16th-century philosopher Francis Bacon.

This phrase has existed in various versions across cultures and across times. Earlier versions of the phrase date back to the 10th century, such as in the Nahj Al-Balagha:

“Knowledge is power and it can command obedience,”

or the words of the Persian poet Ferdowsi:

“Capable is he who is wise.”

There’s a Hebrew phrase in the biblical Book of Proverbs that was translated nearly the same; first into Latin as:

“Vir sapiens et fortis est et vir doctus robustus et validus,”

and then into the English King James Bible as:

“A wise man is strong, a man of knowledge increaseth strength.”

I’m sure we’ve all heard it before.

Most of us have probably heard it enough that it has become one of those corny, hackneyed phrases that we might roll our eyes at. It’s one of those things you know is true, but that you might feel like a dork saying.

Platitudinous though it may be, I feel this is a phrase worth remembering.

While knowledge and wisdom are not quite the same thing (like knowing what to say vs when you should say it), for these purposes they can both be thought of as valuable things that accumulate as one lives.

Here are some things to remember about wisdom and/or knowledge, to remind you why it is never a waste of time to pursue it:

It’s free

While you might pay a sort of karmic price for your golden nuggets of wisdom (like burning your hand when the stove is hot), you really can learn pretty much anything for free, if you put your mind to it.

There’s free articles, videos, textbooks, even open courseware for pretty much everything on the internet. Your local library probably has some cool stuff. Your grandpa probably knows some things that he’d be willing to tell you. Hell, a lot of things you can probably just figure out through trial and error, like how to kiss someone, or how to stand on your head.

Even if you’re paying for someone else to teach you something, it’s really you who ends up teaching yourself in the end, isn’t it? The time and attention you give something is the true price you pay for it, but it doesn’t always have to cost dollars.

It’s renewable

Knowledge doesn’t expire– you can use it over and over again.

As long as you remember where the blackberries grow you’ll be able to go and pick them. You can harvest a quail egg if you know the right bush to check underneath.

There’s no limit to sharing it

The renewability of your knowledge isn’t limited to you.

If you know where the berries grow and where the quail lay their eggs, you can teach your friends, and you and your friends can make berry pies and quails-egg omelets for you all to enjoy in the future.

It’s interesting

It’s another thing that sounds awfully cheesy to say, but learning is fun.

Did I need to know that certain animals– like mantis shrimp, pythons and some birds– can see a whole spectrum of color that we humans can’t even really comprehend?

No.

Do I have any current practical application for that knowledge?

No.

Am I still glad I found out?

Yes!

Why the hell wouldn’t I be? That’s fascinating.

Things like this are what make living on Earth exciting and engaging. Aren’t we lucky to exist on this badass planet? You only live once (theoretically), and you might as well discover some things to entertain you while you’re doing it, if you haven’t already.

It can’t be taken from you

Short of a Men in Black-style memory eraser wand type situation, I can’t imagine a situation where someone could take your knowledge from you.

Even if everything else was taken from you, like your possessions, your social status, or your health-– you would still have all the information you’ve learned that you could manage to remember.

Actually, you’d probably end up with more knowledge than you started with if you endured a worst-case scenario like that. Wisdom too, definitely. Which brings me to my next point:

It’s the best silver lining

No matter what totally crazy messed-up stuff goes down in your life, you will be wiser for the experience.

If things are horrible at this particular moment, you can at least take comfort in the fact that you’ll have this as a consolation prize. Sometimes it even turns out to add up to more than that- something tangibly useful instead of just an abstract life participation trophy.

You might end up finding that whatever you learned was more valuable than whatever you thought you lost, or decide that whatever pain you went through was worth what you found out about yourself or about life.

It liberates us

Knowledge gives us the ability to survive and thrive in the world. This is freedom, and you can’t have real power without freedom.

More knowledge makes us better able to make decisions, as well as to decide the logical and ethical grounds on which we want to be making our decisions.

Knowledge and wisdom help us to make better choices. We respect ourselves more when we make better choices, and when we respect ourselves more, we want to continue to make better choices. This cycle is powerful.

When it’s clear that we respect ourselves, others come to respect us more, which is also immensely powerful.


There’s no denying that knowledge is power– but it’s also important to remember that

with great power comes great responsibility.

Never stop learning, and remember to use your powers for good.


Originally published on medium.com on September 12, 2019.